INTRODUCING
“The Question”
Should I stay, or go?
If you’re here, you’re likely carrying…
Constantly questioning your relationship, never feeling certain
The guilt of not wanting to hurt your partner or family
Feeling pulled in opposite directions — one day convinced to stay, the next aching to leave
A sex life that feels disconnected, dormant, or passionless
The fear of judgment, of what others will say
The terror of doing life alone, facing a future you can’t yet see
You can’t outrun the question anymore.
It keeps you up at night. It sits in the silence at the table. It’s in the tension when your partner reaches for you—or the ache when they don’t.
Do I stay, or do I go?
You’ve spun it every way in your mind. One day, staying feels safe. The next, you can’t breathe. The carousel of doubt never stops.
You’ve tried everything—lists, Google searches, therapy, podcasts, prayers, even psychics. And still, you’re stuck. Torn. Exhausted.
The indecision itself has become its own hell—eroding your peace, your confidence, your connection. And the worst part? You’re starting to believe maybe you’re the problem.
You’re not. You’re BLOCKED.
This isn’t just about the marriage. It’s about you.
Where did you lose yourself? When did you stop listening to your heart? And what will it take to come home to your truth again?
If you’re ready for this journey, you already know that you can’t spend another year circling the same question.
THE COUPLE
at the Threshold
12 Weeks-$25K
Two souls, one choice. Together you will face the truth — whether to re-commit, release, or take sacred space.
THE INDIVIDUAL
standing Alone
12 Weeks-$12K
For the one carrying the Question alone, ready to uncover clarity before they speak it aloud.
ACTIVATING
the Decision
6 months-$25K
For the one who is done circling, and ready to walk through the fire into radical truth.
SUBMIT
an Application
Program application submission window opening soon for Fall 2025
Why Elizabeth?
Because this is not theory for me — this is my lived initiation.
Most of my life I lived inside this question: Should I stay or should I go?
It haunted my childhood, my friendships, my marriage. I abandoned myself again and again for safety, for appearances, for someone else’s happiness. I lied, numbed, betrayed myself — until rock bottom came.
My mother’s death pulled me into my second dark night of the soul. It was then that I faced the truth: I had been hiding from myself for decades.
For five years I lived fully inside the Question. Not just in my marriage, but in my soul. And what I discovered is this:
The Question is never really about the other person. It is about us.
It is about our worth. Our voice. Our willingness to believe our desires matter.
That is the work. That is the transformation. That is the journey I now guide others through — because I know the terrain.
And I know the freedom that waits on the other side.