CALLING IN THE ONE

There comes the point in life when you desire to fall in love and have it last and be all you ever wanted.

Whether it is your first or fifth time, you know that you want a partner to do life with. To have coffee in the morning, to take walks under the moonlight, to snuggle with in front of a roaring fire, to adventure with, and to, well…just experience life with, in whatever way lights your heart up.

But you have this little voice in your head that says,

“But what if there’s nobody out there for me? What if I get hurt again? What if it’s just the same as all my other relationships? What if, what if, what if?”

Well, what if I were to tell you it’s never too late?

It doesn’t matter how old you are, how many relationships you have been in (good or bad), what you look like, or where you live. You can have the love you have been looking for all your life.

I can, without a doubt, 100% guarantee this. Because all you have to do, my love, is look in the mirror.

The key to finding the romantic love of your life in another is rooted in falling in love with yourself.

This is where most romances go wrong for women. Often we were not taught as young girls how precious we were, how worthy and incredible we were, just for being us and nothing more. Often we grew up in families where co-dependent behavior was the coping mechanism for survival or, in less severe cases, keeping the peace.

At some point, disconnection from our true, authentic selves occurred on some level. And learning to love ourselves changed to a different agenda of learning how to be what someone else wanted in order to get connection or validation.

Unfortunately, just because we grew up into women doesn’t mean we grew out of our limiting beliefs that, “Maybe I’m simply not good enough or don’t belong.”

We carry these beliefs – which we may hold just below our conscious surface- into our romantic relationships. This explains why we may find ourselves in the same dysfunctional relationship repeatedly but with different people. Or maybe it is the same person, but the same old issues keep rearing their ugly head, never seeming to get any better.


There is a different way.

Love was not designed to be like this. Love was meant to be a partnership where both people could share their needs, feelings, and desires. To feel heard and be seen. Love was meant to be in a connection where it is safe to be vulnerable and share the innermost parts of ourselves, our hopes, and our dreams.

Here’s the catch, though…all of this bliss and beauty begins with us.

What does our relationship with ourselves look like? How much do we really love ourselves? How connected are we with our own feelings, needs, and desires? How much do we pay attention to what our body and heart tell us? How much of a priority do we make our hopes and dreams? To the extent we love ourselves is the extent we have to give and receive love. In other words…

It all begins with us.


Calling in the One is a 7-Step process set up around three basic premises developed by the author Katherine Woodward Thomas.

She guides us through the concept that this is all about calling in yourself.

In other words, you have to become One before you can manifest THE One. She states:

  1. “Life is an ever-emerging creative process. Our thoughts, beliefs, assumptions, choices, actions, and words are the tools we use to invent our experiences and circumstances.”

  2. “We can create circumstances and opportunities in our lives by setting clear intentions and by committing to and living in alignment with these intentions.”

  3. “When we alter our relationships with ourselves, the externals of our lives will organically alter accordingly.”

This is so much more than simply calling in your soul mate.

Calling in the One can be used to manifest in your career, your finances, or anything else you are looking to bring into your life but are having difficulty with. Once you develop a more profound, loving relationship with yourself, you can call in your heart’s desire. While you may not have your dream at the end of the 7-weeks, you WILL be changed-

and THAT is the guarantee.


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